The Life Half Full

Mary Poppins once told me a very good place to start was “At the very beginning…”  You can’t really argue with logic like that, and it’s not a bad maxim to keep in mind when thinking about getting started with something new.

But then again, shouldn’t I “Begin with the end in mind” as the Seven Habits have me believe?  That sounds like a much more planned approach. 

Or maybe I should be eating the Elephant Sandwich one chunk at a time while working off all those carbs by starting on a journey of a thousand miles with just one step?

It got me to thinking about what makes us get started on something new, and what can stop us too?

I’ve experienced the stresses and strains of starting something new quite recently with this blog.

It had been on my mind for a while as something I’d really like to do.  It was something I’d been thinking about for a good six months or so too, so what actually made it happen?

Well for me it was several things coming together in a perfect storm.  The main components were….

• Desire
• Inspiration 
• Time

To take each of these in turn:-

Desire - I’ve already said that this was already there.  I’ve always loved writing, and I like reading other blogs.  I’ve been wanting to do this for a while and just haven’t got round to it.  Having a base interest in something has to be key to getting on with it.

Inspiration - For me this has come in two forms - a good friend of mine had recently been encouraging me to write more and his enthusiasm for every bit of output from my pen or PC was a major kick for me.  Sadly he is no longer with us, so the impact of his words is magnified in my mind forever.  More practically, realising that the wonderful Zen Habits blog has gone from startup to huge sucess in just one year was a great source of hope that ’it can be done’ for me.

Time - both having that little extra time off work over the Christmas holidays , and the extra peaceful time I found in the mornings from my new early rising routines have given me the space to be creative.

Taking these thoughts and abstracting general principles from them I would say that to kick off any projects in general I would need:-

Want or need - that’s the “desire” above - fairly self-explanatory.

Resources - in my case that was “Time”.  For other people who might have the time, it could have been access to the internet, or the funds to set up a website.

It’s the final element of inspiration that eludes easy capture - the lighting of the blue touchpaper is so much harder to quantify.  What is it that takes a project from drawing board to action?  And why does it always seem so easy once you are started, and yet so hard up until that point?

Making the move to start this blog has been a big step for me.  Ordinarily I would have wanted to know what I was going to write before I started.  I would have wanted to know that it would be sucessful and I’d have take forever trying to plan out how and maybe never got past the drawing board.  As is probably painfully obvious I’m diving on in and seeing where it takes me.  But I’m started and I’m looking forward to a structure emerging and quality improving as time goes on. 

Darren at ProBlogger touched on this in his great post on Wednesday about thinking like a blogger.  One of the critical things he identified for me was his last point “There’s nothing like falling flat on your face, making a fool of yourself, or doing something stupid that can’t be reversed to teach you how something should be done.”

He’s right you know - I guess the final factor that needs to come in to play is to overcome the fear of failure.  Some people seem to find this quite easy.  I really, really, really don’t.

That said, I’m finding taking this approach quite liberating…..

Filling life up, day by day.

Marley

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